THE CONTINUUM OF VIOLENCE

Domestic violence is a punishable social phenomenon that takes place mainly in the private sphere and has a major impact on a family's psychological well-being and physical safety. The causes of such violence are often multi-faceted. In the majority of cases, the perpetrators are men and the victims are women and children.

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There are many definitions of domestic violence.

The Istanbul Convention defines it as follows: 

The term "violence against women" is understood as a violation of human rights and a form of discrimination against women and shall mean all acts of gender-based violence that result in, or are likely to result in, physical, sexual, psychological or economic harm or suffering to women, including threats of such acts, coercion or arbitrary deprivation of liberty, whether occurring in public or in private life; 

The term "domestic violence" shall mean all acts of physical, sexual, psychological or economic violence that occur within the family or domestic unit or between former or current spouses or partners, whether or not the perpetrator shares or has shared the same residence with the victim.

In the majority of cases, the perpetrators are men and the victims are women and children.

Domestic violence is a common phenomenon all over the world, in Belgium and in Brussels. 

In Brussels, the police receive an average of 14 complaints a day concerning this type of offence. A prevalence study by equal.brussels showed that 55% of women in Brussels have experienced at least one form of domestic violence in their lives.

The "Domestic violence helpline - 0800/30030" received 18,863 calls in 2021. Its Dutch-language counterpart, 1712, received 8,515 calls for 11,312 potential victims in the same year, 2,150 of whom were victims of domestic violence.

In 2023, according to the Stopfeminicide blog, there were at least 24 feminicides in Belgium. As this is a census based on press articles, it is highly likely that this number needs to be revised upwards, adding, for example, the figures for forced suicides. The latest figures, dating from 2017, "based on figures for female suicide in Belgium, as well as a minimum estimate of the number of suicides due to partner violence (11%), Psytel was able to determine that around 52 suicides would be linked to partner violence."

What is Olista?

Olista is the domestic violence centre supported by the Brussels region. Ultimately, the centre aims to be the reference point for: 

victim support; 
information and advice for professionals.

The victim support will be holistic and designed to meet all the needs that a victim of domestic violence may encounter on the road to recovery. Through its many partners, the centre will be able to provide the required support in the following areas: legal, psycho-social, administrative and medical. 

Together, the partners will look for the best ways to act in order to help victims, work together and, through the creation of a joint action plan, consolidate their efforts to be more effective and efficient.

Background Purpose of the project Implementation schedule

Project objectives

This collaborative project is designed to establish a process and tools for the consultation. 

In the long term, the project aims to prevent domestic violence and reduce its individual and societal impact through intensive intersectoral cooperation. 

To achieve this, the project has two main objectives:

to develop a structured, collaborative process for the intersectoral handling of domestic violence cases;
to create a physical space that will be an inter- and multi-disciplinary reception centre for victims.

The approach and management of domestic violence situations will be based on the cycle of violence

 

The approach and management of domestic violence situations will be based on the cycle of violence 

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The cycle of domestic violence attempts to identify the repetitive processes involved in violence between partners. This model goes some way to explaining how the victim is led to stay with/return to the perpetrator despite what they are experiencing in the relationship.

This cycle is made up of four distinct phases that follow one another, forming a repetitive loop the intensity of which increases over time, with ever greater violence and at an accelerating pace.

In the diagram (to come), you'll find the perspective of the victim and the perpetrator for each of the four phases of the cycle. The victim is represented by green, the perpetrator by red.

Phase 1: the climate of tension

The perpetrator: tensions initiated by the violent person through various signals (heavy silence, threatening gaze, irritation, increased conflict, growing impatience, emphasis on mistakes, etc.).

The victim: attempts to ease the tension and relieve the pressure. They doubt themselves and their abilities and fear upsetting their partner.

Phase 2: the explosion

The perpetrator: acting out using violent behaviour (verbal, physical, psychological, economic, sexual, etc.) with or without the aid of objects to release the tension they feel.

The victim: feelings of fear, shame, humiliation, injustice, sadness, despair... They are distraught.

Phase 3: justification

The perpetrator: discourse designed to make them feel less responsible for their actions. They justify themselves in various ways (minimisation, referral to the outside world - "You didn't have to...", "You pushed me over the edge", "I'm too sensitive"...).

The victim: they doubt their own perceptions and accept the perpetrator's justifications. They question themselves, feeling responsible for the violence they have suffered. They believe that if they change their behaviour, the violence will stop. They may also want to help the perpetrator to change.

Phase 4: the honeymoon

The perpetrator: they calm down and express their regret. They make promises and give gifts aimed at reconciling with the victim. Or the perpetrator tries to make the victim feel guilty by threatening to harm themselves ("I'm going to see a shrink", "This is the last time" "I'll kill myself if you leave"...). They'll often refer to the context in which the couple met to support the special bond existing between the two partners.

The victim: the new-found calm soothes them, they hope for a change or that things will go back to the way they were, so they give the partner another chance. The victim may also support the perpetrator, or change their own habits to meet the perpetrator's expectations.

Olista will offer three different approaches:

When a situation of domestic violence is referred to it, it will appoint a contact person. After a detailed analysis of the situation, with the help of the victim themselves, the partners involved and risk detection tools, the contact person will opt for one of the following approaches: 

Reassignment

The case is not handled by the centre but is returned to the source with recommendations (actions to be taken, institutions to be contacted);

Psycho-medico-social and legal hub

The case is taken on by the centre and referred to this department, which brings together partners from the associative, medical, psycho-social and legal sectors;

Case consultation

The case is taken on by the centre and referred to this unit, which brings together the public prosecutor's office, the police, the law courts and other partners from youth and child welfare agencies and the voluntary sector.

In the last two options, professionals work together in a coordinated manner on a given situation. The contact person is the point of reference for both the victim and the partners involved in the support process. They are responsible for monitoring and coordinating the partners' actions with and for the victim. Their external position gives them an overview of the working relationships established, and where necessary, to intervene to ensure that support is and remains optimal.

"Violence is a means of securing power over others. It's a power struggle in which one is the subject and the other the object."

Hannah Arendt, German philosopher.

LEGAL TEXTS and strategic documents

Definitions of domestic and family violence:

The Public Prosecutors' circular COL 3/2006 defines domestic violence Read ›

The Public Prosecutors' Circular COL 4/2006 provides a more precise definition of partner or domestic violence Read ›

The Istanbul Convention, ratified by Belgium in 2016, provides a broader definition of violence against women, including domestic violence Read ›

Strategic documents referring to the importance of improved multidisciplinary collaboration:

The Council of Europe Convention on Preventing and Combating Violence Against Women and Domestic Violence, signed in Istanbul on 11 May 2011, ratified by Belgium on 14 March 2016 and approved by the Law of 1 March 2016 (the "Istanbul Convention") Read ›

The Comprehensive Security Framework Note 2022-2024 (the "CSFN") Read ›

The joint general policy declaration of the Government of the Brussels-Capital Region and the United College of the Common Community Commission, 2019-2024 legislature (the "DPR") Read ›

The Brussels Plan to Combat Violence Against Women 2020-2024 (Action 46) Read ›

The Global Security and Prevention Plan 2021-2024 (the "GSPP") (Theme 1, measure 1.4) Read ›

Overview of domestic violence in the Brussels Region during the Covid-19 pandemic. March-November 2020, Focus no. 2 of the Observatory, February 2021 Read ›

The National Action Plan to combat all forms of gender-based violence 2021-2025 (the "NAP") (Priority II) Read ›

Contact

E-mail : olista@safe.brussels
Téléphone : 0490/68.63.81

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